W is nuts, and I need to detach......

[~Sol]

I have fought for this strength to move on......I am calling my bluff.

I talked to the real estate agent about selling the house if W didn't want to. I guess I will need a lawyer after all to force this or I need to learn how to file everything on my own with the courts. The courts will decide if the house is to be sold or if I can just get my name removed..

I am separating all finances. I am going to the court house next week to file for legal seaparation........just to make it official and for one of us to move out. If I move out, it will be stated that I will no longer pay the entire mortgage...I don't know if I will be stuck with it if I get my own place....but she has already decided that she will not move out nor sell the house.

You are SO RIGHT in assessing that she has NO RESPECT for me...I brought that up this morning.....and every time she calls me a name in disrespect - at home AND in public. Public is the worst.

The last thing I want to do is stoop down to her level and argue like a 16 year old with yelling and screaming and getting in my face....it's very CHILDISH......and I have told her to lower her voice, stop name calling, and give me distance......she just laughs in my face....

I am taking time off from work next week so I could go file, and I am making extra hours to cover my time off without digging into vacation time......

She does NOT control my life!!!!!!!!!!