OTOH, if my H married "up" the first time (and I think he did), why would he not still want to be with me, when I've made it clear, even as recently as when I found out about this ow in March, that I would try again? It just doesn't make sense to me.
Could it be he's ashamed and doesn't think he deserves you? Granted right now he soesn't, but in his own he if he sees himself as not worthy, why would he try? I think for men in particular their shame gets in the way. Just my 2 cents.
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Darn! Just when I think I'm letting go, I get caught up in this again.
Isn't this sad,. I'll go for days doing great and then BAM! HUGS to you today.
