Thank you Alison and Snodderly. Snodderly, thanks for the nice compliment; I needed it.
It makes sense that he would choose someone "less than" me, so that he can feel good about himself when he's with her. She probably looks up to him and thinks he's great.
OTOH, if my H married "up" the first time (and I think he did), why would he not still want to be with me, when I've made it clear, even as recently as when I found out about this ow in March, that I would try again? It just doesn't make sense to me.
And now we are going to be divorced. And for what? So he can spend the rest of his life with her? I doubt it. I think he'll keep going from woman to woman to woman, searching for what he could have had with me, had he just had the character and integrity to try.
Darn! Just when I think I'm letting go, I get caught up in this again.
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