Jen,
Your post stung a little b/c that is exactly what my H did. The difference was he didn't tell me straight what he wanted and as I was just relieved to have him home the first time I didn't feel strong enough to ask.

Now he is well and truely off in la la land. I don't want you to find yourself there it's not a very nice place.

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15