If you decide to DB and participate on one of the DB forums and would like me to check on you from time to time, let me know.
uhm....isn't this a DB forum?
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Even if you have no interest in reconciling and you are going to S and D without doubt, then there is no reason not to give her the time and space, for her private life is then no longer your concern.
I agree with the time and space part. But his W needs to sh*t or get off the pot. She needs to stop pretending their M is fine in terms of "appearances." She needs to either move out or they need to work on the M. Any other way is disrespectful. I disagree with the "stay in the house at all costs" approach. It is way too damaging to the a person's psyche and self-esteem. It sounds like she wants to keep up the appearances in house, while still maintaining the OM R. That is just prolonging the pain and also making Choco look weak if you ask me. What woman wants a man that let's her f*ck around under his household? She will lose respect for him and then the M may be beyond broken. LFL
