I know you have mentioned you felt your finances were haywire sort of speak. It sounds like she has very much contributed to this. Not one but two BMW she has? Yikes! Then a 300.00 a month payment you have taken on for her plastic surgery? Since she is now working can I ask what she does with her money?
Boy she really is in for a rude awakening. Also I am curious how did she react when her own children confronted her? I know I would be mortified. Were your daughters angry or hurt? You are right she is making very poor choices as a mother.