W is nuts, and I need to detach......

[~Sol]

W said over an argument about bills that she had over 20 people she slept with at her job.....and the reason she had her affair was that I never satisfied her sexually....I told her we needed to go to counseling, I made an appt, and she said she will never go to any counseling.....

So what has changed? Nothing.

Except that I am working on myself, standing my ground about our financial responsibilities, and marriage counseling and parenting...but it seems she is unwilling to put 100% into the M.

I said it before, it is dead. There is no "relationship" anymore - not in the loving sense of the word. It is still hostile, and I just wanted to talk about the money she took from my client that needed to go to pay some late bills....what's so hard to understand about that?

I hate to say this, but I was not detached this morning with her - not when she exaggerated about sleeping around that I don't satisfy her.....she's back with that old fight......but it hurts to hear it that she has all this resentment towards me still....

This is not a marriage. Now she is continuing on like normal as if she controls this R. She threatened me again with child support if I file. Well, that's for the courts to decide, right?

I left for a while when she got into a rage (about my asking about the bills).....and I came back to get my daughter so we can spend the day away from the house and from her.