I also love to read your posts. You have a calming influence on me, and you are so positive. You have also helped me to see what my life can be like in the future.
Of course he wants you in his life! Who wouldn't? Only a fool or an MLCer - are they perhaps one and the same?
I think we would all understand if you feel there's been too much damage to even consider reconciliation; however, it must be nice to know he finally realizes what he's done. Since he hasn't had any time alone, though, nor any IC (from what I gather), I think it would take a lot of time and work for him to become good H-material again. He is going to need a lot of strength and courage to make that journey; it'll be interesting to see if he has it in him.
Virginia, you deserve the best. I do hope that you will not let the past cloud your vision, in either a positive or negative way. Hold on to your joy in life.
Love, Nicola
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