OC- I was thinking last night when I couldn't sleep, (bad call to eat mexican and margaritas that late).
When we talked Fri night, we got around to the topic of taking each other for granted. Earlier in our M, I used to do little things for her. Surprising her with a cup of her favorite coffee, meeting her for lunch, little gifts etc. Most recently, before the bomb, I got really bad at calling her during the day, I started staying up late watching TV and not going to bed until after she went to sleep.
I took her for granted, and in her words, made her feel like I didn't care about her. We lost a big part of our connection. This started a good 6 months before the bomb.
So OC, I think you may be on to something. I think I need to treat her special again, because she likes it. I openned the car door for her a few times and she initially acted like I was nuts for doing it, and now she almost expects it when we are out.
I don't know, just a thought. Today she is taking S6 to a festival in town. Originally I was going to go with, but I bailed because some of my work got rained out yesterday. That and I wanted to pull back a bit.
Smiling and waving.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......