Need Veteran Piecer's Advice - desperately!!!

[Heartbroken]

Thanks for your input!

I want to get a condo - it will be less work and have more social opportunities (pool, club house). We built this house together and it would be to sad for me to stay. We cannot really sell right now as MI is by far one of the worse states economy wise right now. H is willing to give me 50K more than if we get a true appraisal so financially I can make it way easier in a small place too. H will keep the house which will be good for the kids.

H says he wants to be alone - but that is just not him. I don't believe H when he says OW is completely out of the picture - she may be physically but she is still in his head...

D13 (tomorrow she turns 13!) is coming home early today - S9 has football camp with H all day. D13 and I will do something fun! Grocery shop? Ha!

Thanks ROOT! I will go read MLC - I have been saying this is what is seems to be going through (his job SUCKS right now - Ford Mtr. Co,) but have not really looked into it...