I always try to think that H is just sick (as in having an illness). These H's really act and think totally different. From the worst part of my M a few months ago when h was almost a completely different person, to now when I am seeing a bit more of my original h back every week, the change is dramatic. Not just R stuff, just everyday thinking/acting. Meanwhile, just focus on you and your kids. Forget h now. There is no need to put yourself through the roller coaster drama of him. Take care
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
