My W is on an extreme downer today after my great night last night.
She has spent the day with her best friend (who came to the Aust/Uruguay with me and friends).
When she got home with FBF and DD, she started spewing about all the pepperoni packets in the fridge (she loves her pepperoni and cheese toasted turkish rolls). Every time I do any shopping, I pick up a packet (for her).
She embarrassed herself in front of her FBF by having a hissy fit (which I ignored and walked into my office).
I am cooking dinner for us all tonight, including FBF (as she loves my cooking, and is also one of my biggest supporters, regardless of her being my W's post MLC new FBF).
W and FBF have stepped out to clean their cars at the local self-wash (a Sunday ritual). DD and I are getting dinner ready.
I am pretty certain that BF told W all about last night. My friends and her hit it off really well, and she kept commenting on what a great night she had.
After the soccer we had a feed (over 60 international food stalls outside the stadium), then had a few drinks at a live concert nearby, ended up dropping BF at her house after midnight.
I also feel pretty good about my sitch, and feel that I am really starting to fully detach emotionally from her. I find that for the first time, my W is starting to turn me off with the things she says and does (not turning off enough to give up), but just enough to make me realise that I really can move on without her if it comes to it.
Last edited by andyv; 06/03/0707:40 AM.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."