What caused the hope for reconciliation in your previous post?
I can't imagine it's easy to go from wanting to be divorced to thinking you want to stay married. Your W is probably having a lot of inner turmoil.
I wonder how many marriages disolve because one spouse is just too proud to go back to a marriage and work on it? I'll bet a lot. The fear of things going back to the way they were is looming at all times. And if one of the spouses isn't bought in to improving themself, it's not gonna happen long-term, I don't think.
Anyway, good luck with your situation, I really hope things work out the best for you!!! _________________________ 1st concern and priority: the comfort, the well-being and the happiness of my spouse.
There is much need for discipline in marriage, not of one's companion, but of one's self.
