I don't know if we've discussed the details of like the laundry and lunches. The thing is... I think it's a control thing for me. See, most of my actions are done out of fear. If I don't do his laundry, he will spend time in a laundromat with maybe other single women? And what if he befriends one... The lunch. He can throw it out and I'd never know... but this way I *think* he's not out with any women.