Yes, she is working. Her work is the problem. That is were her A started. I probably won't have to pay alimony because she has always worked part time in our marriage. She is also a nurse so she can earn a decent living for herself.

I actually am ok rightnow. Not a ton of tension between the two of us but a lot of emotional distance. She is still cold towards me. She wrote me a note tonight giving me her copy of the order for dissolution of our marriage. She wants to keep this matter private between the two of us. Don't know how a divorce can be kept quiet but that is how she would like it. Who is she kidding?

Again this sucks. I still care for my W, but the thought of not having daily contact with my girls kills me. I feel that there is noway that a D is not going to happen at this point, atleast not with her personality. She has big plans for her new life and it very well might happen the way she is envisioning it. Hopefully my lawyer can help out with that.

-ERC


Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current