Is your wife working right now? Does she have an income?

Andyv has some good advice. Try to avoid relationship talks and any emotional discussions. My guess is you are a time bomb ready to explode and if that's the case you need to keep some physical distance from her right now and take gentle care of yourself. Is there a lot of tension in the house when you two are around each other? If that's the case, do spend as much time apart until things can calm down. You both probably need distance from each other. Spend time with your friends, and treat yourself well.... I know this is a rough time. I've been there... {{{hugs}}}


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