We've come a long way baby!!!!!

[Heartbroken]

That is exactly what is he is going - he says he has not had an identity for 16 and when I told him how I felt about this statement he did admit that maybe his perspectives on our history are skewed slightly.

Not sure if OW is even back in the picture - at this point what is the diff. Can't trust either H or her - why do I still want him so bad?

Thanks for any help!