Great post, OT.

Quote:"That, and, it is possible to see from his perspective why he might feel like he only gets leftovers once you have taken care of all the things on your agenda."

I have been wanting to talk to zuzu's husband to ask him some very direct questions about the "breakup" which he seems to be stuck on. It is almost impossible (in my limited experience) to get at the core reason without talking to the affected spouse, BUT, I sure want to hear zuzu's take on your statement above. You may have just put one over the fence.

zuzu?


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.