Oh boy do I know this one inside/out myself...and am I ever familiar with the pride that gets in the way of getting things done LOL.
BUT you two are just NOW embarking on the most productive therapy for the two of you, now is NOT the time to let your pride stop you from the first homework assignment given to you two from this therapist. Now, of course...you will let the ST know that YOU had to be the one to initiate getting he homework done, I'm sure the therapist will address that too. He doesn't seem to be someone who will let that slide