True enough GEL but something inside of me keeps saying "why am I the one that always has to pursue"
I know this sounds negative and not very cooperative on my part but I have made the effort so many times just to be shot down that it is ingrained that it will happen again, and again
But, I will take your suggestion and run it by him again later. He has already made plans for later tonight and breakfast with friends tomorrow morning and has mentioned a couple of times about cutting the lawn this weekend(which he usually has to do in two parts because we have a fairly large backyard) so the only time would be tomorrow afternoon/evening. I know, once again, this sounds negative but then I am sure he will say how tired he is and needs a nap (like he's doing now - grrrrr)
However, having said that, he also has Monday off so he could cut the grass then but will use the excuse that he has to work Monday night and needs to get some sleep. I can read that man like a book and know just what he is going to say
The man is a master of excuses
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)