Welcome to the psycho club, Rob. What I've found is that this whole experience does a real mindf*ck on us which stays with us loooong after our S thinks things are over and done with. They end up looking at us like *we're* crazy aliens.

Glad you got back on the PMA/GAL bandwagon which is what I'm struggling to do. When I'm struggling to figure things out, I tend to retreat into my head to process things...which isn't exactly the best thing. I'm trying though....really just in sort of a holding pattern. H has stepped up the game a bit, so that's good.

Keep up your awesome PMA!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!