Just an update here. Since last summer when my H hit one of his peaks in MLC, he has refused to go for joint counselling with me. We had gone previously off and on. After a particularly heated "discussion" the other day, (had to do with H deciding to take off in a snow storm on "business") I realized that both my h and myself were "discussing 2 different things. I asked H if he would consider going for joint counselling to learn some new communication techniques for the two of us. He said ok (I almost fainted) and HE made a joint C appt for a couple of days from now!!
I have no idea how this is going to work out but I am hoping that we both can learn some new communication skills that work for US. I am trying to slow down here and not have as high expectations for myself, my h, and our marriage. There is a lotta give and take that needs to be done here. I hope I don't lose myself along the line.......
