Well, I just got home from the soccer, its half past midnight.

DD is staying at my sisters, and W is with OM. I am just finishing of a light ale and I will be off to bed.

I had a really good time at the soccer. My W's new best friend (post MLC and 12 years younger than W) had a great time with me and my friends, and could not stop talking about it in the car on the way to her house. I am glad she is a friend of W because she is pretty decent compared to her other friends.

Uruguay beat Australia 2-1, after we led 1-0. 62,000 spectators, incredible game of soccer. We had a late meal afterwards and I tried a Chai Tea Latte for the first time tonight, and I am hooked.

I will pick up DD early today (9am) and i promised to take her to the mall (playgym). then to the park afterwards (hopefully W will not renege on the three of us going). Then to cook dinner for all of us and W's best friend.

You know, I can handle the separation if it just wasn't for OM. But we cant have everything. But I have become more resilient and it is not affecting me as much as before (W being with OM tonight).

So WAW, take heart that it will get better for you, and the detaching will become easier.

Another good thing to come out of tonight, I did not discuss anything about W with W's best friend. I think she (BF) was suprised that I did not bring her up.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."