Well, if that's what you want from a woman all you have to do is validate, validate, validate (but don't placate. -lol) If you haven't been validating your W and that's how she's acting either she's very self-validating or some other guy(s) are validating her. In other words, that's how a woman acts if she wants it and she knows she's going to get it. So either you've validated her enough to give her that impression or she's feeling remarkably self-confident and self-aware or she's very relaxed about her sexuality because she knows if she can't get some from you at the moment, other men have clearly signaled their availability.
Would you say, then, that this is how honeypott started behaving? As far as I know, Mr. honeypott wasn't turning up the validation and she was strongly resistant to getting validated or getting what she wanted from other men.
In my case, my memory of the timing is a little fuzzy, but I think it was near the beginning of our upswing, so she probably didn't have lots of stored validation. Maybe because of the timing, the validation I had recently started giving her was hitting her extra hard?
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
