I concur with Husband,

If we get through this successfully, It will make us better for it.

I took everything for granted, spent too much time away for work, buying things for my W, not playing with DD near enough as I am now.

It does put a perspective on things. I hope it is not too late for us.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."