Well damn, it is now getting close to 1am and I cannot fall asleep for the life of me. lol, maybe I am afraid of the nitemares I will have thinking of what AmyC is going to say to me.Oh well, have a good friday everyone, I will be on sometime tommorrow afternoon of evening. Maybe I will get lucky and this thread will lock up, I want a new title for it, just don't know what yet. Damn I hate when I am hyper.
The only thing I have to say is that I think you have done one hell of a bang-up job of taking your life back.
Many people let their pasts dictate their future. All the way to the grave. Problem with that is their children pay the price.
Your son is young enough that he will never tell the stories of Daddy being passed out drunk. Or hungover. Or being drunk at his game. Or Mommy crying. He will not grow up being embarrassed to have his friends over. He will always only think you hung the moon.
Congratulations. You are 3 months into the best time of your life.
Give your wife some time. She doesn't know you sober.
And you need time to get to know yourself again, as well.
As the man.
No longer a victim.
And If you couldn't do this, you wouldn't be here.