Why do these things happen

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It may be typical, but it is kind of wierd and scary, not really in a bad way. It is just, I dunno, cannot explain. I guess the part is I do not understand is how anyone can just turn off like that, I realize it probably wasn't just like that for her, but to myself it was that way

I haven't been to Petaluma in years. Been thru Santa Rosa a few times lately. W's aunt and uncle live in Healdsburg, those two are probably the most down to earth and caring people I have ever met.