Sound advice DNQ,

End of the day, if she is having a PA, what difference does it make. She has told me since Feb that we are separated. She has stuck by that and has not given me any false hope.

Sure, there are baby steps, but she has not given me an indication that she wants back in to the M.

I have to give her credit for that.

I am glad that she knows there is an escape clause in her MLC contract.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."