Yes, it is easy to tell someone to leave, but I understand the desire to keep a family together and how difficult it is to have small children involved. Thank you for the advice sweetheart. I have friends who say "I would never take that off of any man", and they don't know about what their husbands have been doing behind their backs while they give the advice. It is all so difficult and depressing. I wish and pray the very best for you.