ERC,

It sounds like she is playing games with you. There is no need to leave the papers out.

Is there any way you can slow things down with your W.

My W had all sorts of paperwork lying around our house, changing cell phone contract, rental agreements for her to move into etc etc.

I managed to slow things down by laying low, and the paperwork dissapeared.

Like you, my PMA has taken a battering, especially over the last 5 days, but after I regroup and continue doing things for myself and DD, and detach further with everything that is happening around me, I get that positive feeling back.


AndyV
M38
W36
D7
M 13 years
Together 17 years
W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off)
W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06)
EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM)
Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."