It sounds like she is playing games with you. There is no need to leave the papers out.
Is there any way you can slow things down with your W.
My W had all sorts of paperwork lying around our house, changing cell phone contract, rental agreements for her to move into etc etc.
I managed to slow things down by laying low, and the paperwork dissapeared.
Like you, my PMA has taken a battering, especially over the last 5 days, but after I regroup and continue doing things for myself and DD, and detach further with everything that is happening around me, I get that positive feeling back.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."