not again!

[RedHeadWife]

I'm kind of going through the same things, emotions, etc. My H had one EA years ago when our first child was not even 2. I think it was partly physical, maybe w/o sex. Then he had a one-night stand. He told me about both of these things when I was on maternity leave w/ #2 son. Then this past January he dropped the D bomb and a few months later confessed to another EA.

We are "back together" now, however, he is deployed for a year so we're now in a long-distance marriage w/ 3 little ones ages 7 down to 1.

I'm going through the "how can I respect myself" but I want to keep my family together and do what I feel is "right." How will I ever look at him the same? How will I ever learn to trust him again whether I truly have "forgiven" or not.

I'm going to start IC next week just to figure out how to get past this stuff.

Bottom line is that you need to decide what you want to do. If you want to stand for your M or not. If you can get past this last A or not. If you want to, you need to read Divorce Remedy and start DB'ing. Instantly! It's the only way to go.