Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Gidday Husband,

My DD won her game 4-0, it is the first win this year (drew plenty). I took heaps of photo's

My wife told me last night that due to my emotional detachment and lack of intimacy over the last few months before the bomb, she felt like she was nothing, and unnattractive. She told me she had no self worth, now this OM is spoiling her with attention, and she feels special.

I hate it when they say "Don't blame OM, he is innocent". That is such BS. He knew her sitch, she needed space and separation, but he managed to sneak his way in at her most vulnerable.

WAW,

Mate, I feel for you. I know exactley how you feel. My W will be seeing OM tonight whilst I am at the soccer.

She may stay there the night. Like husband said, we just have to not let it bother us.

It is beyond our control. Nothing we say or do will prevent things from happening, or bring our W's back to us.

It is a waiting game, and the best man will always win, regardless of the outcome.