Have been trying to see if there is any correlation between events in our life and W changes in attitude. Some times I am treated well, like I should be, some times it's almost back to square one. If I can figure something out I will try to improve the problem. Can't really ask, or expect W to say what it is, not usually her way of dealing with things. Right now we seem to be riding the tide in and out, luckily the water seems to be going up higher than before.