She has a lawyer? My w is not at that point yet. Do you have one? If so talk to him/her about this house thing. I bet they are going to say DO NOT Make any purchase at this time. If they do say this now you are not he bad guy your lawyer is. "Sorry hunny but my lawyer said I shouldn't be making any major purchase right now. I want to help you but the lawyer said no. I'm paying him good money so he must know what he is talking about.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know