Enjoy the D’s Game. Be there for her. Take pictures and build memories. After the game take her out for lunch or an Ice cream. If ya get a hold of that picture put it on the refrigerator. Look at it when you forget why you are trying so hard. Also the W will see it and maybe see what she is loosing. Don’t give up yet. Our W’s are in a fog but we are in limbo land. I feel like in my sitch that I have built a house of cards. It will not take much to knock it down. The hurt does not go away for awhile. It is always there. It’s just sometimes we are handling it better. I had my leg amputated in a car accident years ago. I always have the “phantom Pain” but I have learned to tune it out. It really only hurts me (like right now) when I talk about it or think about. The thinking usually comes at night. Kind of like your night last night.
What did you mean by?
“but the more I think about how my W's self confidence being shattered due to me, the more it worries me.”
I’m not sure what you are referring to. Can you expand on this a little?
Cheer up big guy. Things could be worst believe it or not.
WAW
I agree with MC that is why I didn’t understand what you were talking about. Don’t be rude but it is your house too. If she thinks she dislikes you that bad let her go out and eat. The only way I would not push it is if it became physical in front of the kids. (Like she started throwing things at ya).
As for the chores I own a business and I had to go due some equipment maintenance. As for your chores. It is your house to. I would (and haven’t) done anything different since I found out about the A. Actually I have done a little more. So riddle me this
Your W is unhappy with you. She doesn’t like the way ya comb your hair, you always leave the toilet seat up ECT… NOW you stop doing things around the house. Boy will she have thing to talk the OM about. DON”T GIVE HER ANY REASON to want go talk / See the OM.
Smile and wave. Go about you life like she is just a room mate right now. That gets old to. (It’s where I am at now). But it is a nicer atmosphere for the kids and it takes the wind out of her sails
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