I am new here and really do not know my way around yet. I am dealing with another affair my husband is having. We have been married a long time and 9 years ago I could have been one of the "success" stories. We worked through the 2nd affair and he was great. It lasted a long time, but he is at it again. I am really tired and feel desperate because I know I don't have the stamina to fight through this one. I have dedicated my life to my family and put my heart and soul into this relationship. It is as if he has been abducted from the house and I am left with a surly cold replacement. He started out by accusing me and I believe this is the way he gave himself permission to start up again. Any advice would be appreciated.
