ERC, I know how you feel. I made up my mind today to walk away. I've given it my best but that wasn't good enough. It's now a legal matter before the courts. I am going to hold my head high knowing that I am standing for my daughter and me. OM is welcome to her. I will pray for you in another way this eve. DD's are what you need to stand for. It's true that God hates divorce but he gave people free will to choose. You don't want it, I don't want it, but it "is what it is." Don't feel guilty about crying "uncle". We didn't quit, they did.

Peace