MC,
Thanks for the advice. Since it is free, I'll take it cautiously. I think you do have a good point. I am currently walking on eggshells since she has filed for separation but we aren't separated physically(under same roof). I will take your advice and if it works great!

If not, then I might be back to square one on DBing. Remember, I'm the one that wants to keep the M working. She wants D. She has backup OM. She's going thru MLC. She's the pain in the A$$.
Don't quit your day job for M counseling yet. I'll let you know how it turns out.


ME: 39 ring on
wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC
son:17,11
dtr:9
mar:17yr
Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old.
DBing 5-19-07
My story on the link below.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470