MC, Thanks for the advice. Since it is free, I'll take it cautiously. I think you do have a good point. I am currently walking on eggshells since she has filed for separation but we aren't separated physically(under same roof). I will take your advice and if it works great!
If not, then I might be back to square one on DBing. Remember, I'm the one that wants to keep the M working. She wants D. She has backup OM. She's going thru MLC. She's the pain in the A$$. Don't quit your day job for M counseling yet. I'll let you know how it turns out.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470