You can not POSSIBLY be surprised at this most recent turn of events....
Really? Don't you think she might have been blissfully happy, even if just for a minute? She might have "known" deep down this was possible, but I know I wouldn't want to think about it or believe it could happen, if I was in her shoes.
Kiki, have you been to counseling or anything? Have you been active with your H, doing things together, getting to know each other again? I'm sorry you're in this situation, I really hope it all turns out how you want it to.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...