Don’t have much time will write more latter. My house is the same as far as the sleeping arrangements go.
No offence but the eating thing is the strangest behavior I have heard yet about a WAW.

Anything within reason that makes your W uncomfortable you should avoid but this eating thing I need to think this one over. Very Intriguing
Does she expect you to eat in your room like a bad little boy?

I need to go back and read your sitch.

You are serious right. Because this almost sounds like a plot to a T.V show.

I’m not trying to make fun if your sitch it's not funny at all but it is strange…

I’ll get back to you when my “chores” are done...

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know