Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[WAW in the OC]

Hi husband,
Thanks for answering. Yes we are in the same house. She wanted me to move out after she told me she was in love w/ OM, and wanted a D. What a B$$ch

I said No. So now I have the master bedroom and she sleeps in a small room upstairs.

She divided the days we take care of the kids re: meals, school, pickup. She told me to stay away when she has her meals w/ kids. I invited her to join us for dinners but stopped offering when I used LR. I would like to eat dinner w/ my kids every night, even on her nights. I figure I can be adult enough to sit down an enjoy my kids w/out arguing for 20 min. Can't she?

So my question is, does this go against LR if I join my family for dinner when I know I am not welcome by her?

BTW, I hope your sitch is coming along better.