so after 2 months back together again, my H has told me that he feels divorce is inevitable. i don't know what to do. he is at our home that just went under contract to make repairs. i was over there last night when he dropped the bomb, and left to come back to our place. i did fall apart. i did get upset and say some things i wish i hadn't (just stuff i've been through). i am so tired. i have been DB'ing my ass off for 6 months now.
he has been acting more and more distant over the past couple of weeks, but up until then, was optimistic about our future. when i sensed him pulling back, i started to DB hard again. no more ILY. stayed light and out of his way. he has been very secretive about his e-mail and myspaceing - every time i walk in the room, he shuts down the page. i am suspicious that OW is in the picture again.
i don't know what to do. if he does not want to try, then there is nothing i can say or do to change his mind. i truly thought we were on the long road to recovery. i haven't heard from him. feeling very confused and tricked.
