Yeah, i wish my wife could get over the past and work on us now. She is completely done in her mind. All she wants is her new life as in her mind it will make everything better.
My wife is also going to see a C. Which gives me hope, she has her first session on Wed. Her lawyer recommended the counselor, so i'm not sure if its going to be a good thing or not. I'm just hopeful that the counselor is good. It's funny everyone she knows has said she needs to go talk to someone, but now that her lawyer recommended it, she is going.
I don't think she is asking for my approval. She doesn't care what I think. She is trying to get me excited about possibly moving into this new neighborhood in two seperate houses. And she needs me to sign off on any house she buys. So she can't just DO it. She needs me to buy it for her.
This is a bad situation for me. It's difficult to disagree with her and not come across as trying to control her and the situation.