It's not my sitch but what is the point of you going to see the house? If you told her that house sucks would she not want it? I think she is unsure what she wants. Getting you to go means you approve of her dessiion thus validating it. VERY nicely I would some how decline the offer myself. As for her not being happy with things around the house and short with the kids? I also think she is trying to justify why she is unhappy. Like My W I don't think your W really knows.( maybe they should get together):) My W is going to see A C to find out what made her so unhappy and when she stopped loving me. If ya ask me its kind or like I told her about the affair. We may never really know why it happened or why you were so unhappy but that is history. Let’s find out what does make you happy it's something new I heard about its called Communicating. I need to know what bugs her and I need to not take it personally ALSO SHE needs to listen to my little pet peeves and not take it personally Sorry I kind of started to run off on this. Getting back to you like I said. If she was so darn sure she wanted out she would not care what you thought she would just do it.
Sorry for the soap boxing
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
