Hey Rob. Sorry to hear that you have had a rough couple weeks. Sounds like you handled it well. I see this as a give and take situation. Sure you need to stay on top of things and be doing what you want to do...BUT she has to also become more accpeting of you and support you even when you fall down. Pressure cooker is right. Not fair and that will most likely have to be dealt with at some point. However, you are most likely right that she still harbors some doubts, etc...which would really make it nearly impossible for her to be very accepting...because she is scared of you slipping back into your old ways.