My night was good. Had beers with my neighbor and talked about a ton of things. I may have even been able to help him with some of his relationship issues. I found out a good friend of his went through something similar a while back, and is back together with his wife. So i am hoping to meet him soon to talk.

So yeah, good time, good conversation, good beer, and out of the blue a good friend of mine walked into the bar close to the time we were about to leave, so it was nice to see him and have a drink with him too.

This morning i took my kids to school, and got my car washed. So that feels good.

Unfortunately while getting my car washed, my wife called me to see if I was coming home. My wife has been in a foul mood all morning, I tried to ignore her, but she wanted to talk. She wanted to know if I wanted to ride with her into the city to see the house she wants. I told her after thinking about it, I didn't see the point. She was not happy from that point on.

Basically she wants to buy a house that she fell in love with (i see a pattern with this falling in love crap) and she thinks i'm only thinking of myself right now. (yes. she used those words)

I tried to be diplomatic, but she doesn't compromise. So we are stuck with two different opinions right now. She wants me to buy the house with/for her, because it will make the kids happy. And I want to figure out the seperation first before we make any huge moves like that. hell i don't even know if i want to stay in our house or sell it.

This whole recent turn in my situation has gotten me confused. We were having good times together, but now it seems like she is just angry with me, angry with the house, short with the kids, etc. She says she feels stuck. I'm not seeing any positives.


I don't know what to do to turn this around. I just want 1 day of fun/good will/light heartedness in my house. A few days with no seperation/relationship talks would be nice too.

So i guess those are my goals:

1. One day of good times.
2. No Seperation talks for 2 days.
3. Some indication that she isn't sure.