She came up with that while I was trying to position her by moving her legs around. She pressed her feet against my chest and positioned herself, and we went from there.

So much for her sexual passivity. I think most of the time she wants to be almost, but not quite, as aggressive as I am. Being grabbed and thrown over the side of the couch doesn't seem to be what she's looking for, but neither does she want to grab me and throw me onto a couch or bed and jump on top. Not that she doesn't like riding on top, but not in an overpowering or leading way, if you know what I mean. She wants me to lead, and she always wants me to choose the position, but she also wants to be active in that position. Anyway, until I learned to turn up my aggressiveness a bit, she didn't have much room to be active without being dominant, so she tended to be more subdued, which neither of us found very exciting. Or maybe my mild aggressiveness coincided with her decreasing overall insecurity, leading her to "ramp up" in tandem with me.

Come to think of it, this is the biggest variation in positioning that she has ever introduced on the spot. For whatever reason, she's really coming out of her shell.

Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 06/01/07 05:01 PM.
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