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But I am learning to grow, and learning to set (and enforce) boundaries that will serve me well if not in this marriage, then in my next relationship, and I'm learning to "fall in like" again with the man in the mirror.

Glad to hear that Choco.
It's amazing what a M trauma can do in terms of personal growth. Make some lemonade out of those lemons. You are sure to be more attractive to your W if you keep going on this path.
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LFL