Could you please look at my thread - H and I have gone up and down so far so fast. H is been in apt for 3 mos. canceled lease to come back at end of May only to wig out on me two weeks ago. Needless to say he kept the lease until Aug - but now wants to just D. I fear he is in such a black hole that he cannot find his way out. His best friend asked him to at least try one MC session and yesterday H says he needs to slow the D train down a bit. I am at my wits end and think your sitch was close to this. I cannot find your original thread but I find bits and pieces. Please send me a link if possible. My whole sitch can be found beneath my signature. Except for the last few weeks or so that is still in piecing just under:
