In real life, your hubby has led you in circles. I think you should know what his plans are before you blindly follow along. I think you should know if he has any intention of working on the relationship, and "give it a month" is not an acceptable answer.
Totally agree with this line of thinking. I also liked the points about living in fear. I think that may be holding you back more than anything. You know you deserve better than this treatment. You don't like the way it makes you feel about yourself, him, or the M. The question is, is he going to keep stringing you along with his BS. What evidence do you have to the contrary? Why are you so fearful of asking a simple question? Maybe you need to explore that further and not worry so much about what his potential answer will be. LFL
